Even the most seemingly wholesome communities have seedy underbellies.
prominent YouTuber admits to manipulating people & doing things to them without their consent. all the notes are messages of support FOR HIM
— Lex (@lexcanroar) March 14, 2014
Ag. I haven't delved too deeply into this whole situation, but here are the first few links I've come across:
- NYULocal: Sexual Abuse Allegations Rock YouTube Community. "After the Milsom allegations were made public, several former fans of fellow DFTBA musician and British YouTuber Alex Day came forward with accusations ranging from outright sexual abuse to general emotional manipulation and lack of respect for boundaries."
- The Daily Dot: Alex Day and the dangers of YouTube celebrity culture. "In the early days of the community that now combines DFTBA Records, popular Nerdfighter vloggers, and Internet celebrities, there was very little separation between creators and viewers. But with over a million YouTube subscribers, the Alex Day of 2014 is simply not on the same level as your average 15-year-old fan—particularly since the biggest names on the scene have obviously grown up, while newer, younger fans keep joining their audience every day."
- Maureen Johnson: About the Recent Events Concerning YouTube. "Aside from Melissa Anelli, I didn’t see any women speaking about it from entirely outside the sphere of events. And that did bother me...So, because that gap is there, and because I have the benefit of being older—I thought I might widen the focus a little and talk about my own experience and maybe how we got here and where we can go from this point. Because there are many, many places to go."
- Mellow Blueness: at least 9 people tangentially connected to nerdfighteria have been called out as sexual abusers.
- Telling Our Stories: "A community for nerdfighters who are survivors of sexual & domestic violence. Please feel free to submit your story (or use the ask box to go anon), share self-care ideas, tell me about how this situation is affecting you, ask for help -- whatever you need. We're going to get through this together."
- Nephiesworld.tumblr.com: "Yes Alex does do those things you’ve heard about. When I was 17, Alex and Danny traveled 3 hours (seriously.) to my house which is in the middle of nowhere along with a couple of others who were friends with me at the time to stay over. Alex texted Danny something along the lines of “which one do you want” because apparently he got first choice the last time this happened. Yeah, lovely innit." TRIGGER WARNING.
- Hank Green on Sexual Abuse, Consent, and Culture:
[youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tO-sqIoi_lQ]